Our Moral Crisis and the Way We Treat Each Other

Usman Ayub Columnist

We live in a time where information travels faster than ever. With one click, we can see news, opinions, and videos from all over the world. But even with this progress, our moral values seem to be getting weaker. We make quick judgments, react without thinking, and speak without understanding. This is the real moral crisis in our society.

This crisis is not because of one mistake. It is a whole way of thinking. We judge people based on appearance, we call others wrong or misguided without knowledge, and we form opinions without checking the truth. These habits are slowly damaging our social and cultural life.

Judging People by Appearance

In many Asian societies, judging people by their clothes has become common.
If a young person wears modern clothes, people call them irresponsible or “too Western.”
If a woman dresses differently, some people make unfair assumptions about her character.
If someone looks religious, people expect him to be perfect.

This thinking is shallow and unfair. A person’s character cannot be seen from their clothes. Goodness, kindness and honesty live inside the heart, not on the outside. Religion also teaches us not to judge someone by appearance because only God knows what is in the heart.

Calling Others Wrong Without Understanding

Another major problem is that we no longer accept differences.
If someone’s opinion differs from ours, we think they are wrong, misguided, or dangerous.
In some cases, people even use harsh religious labels without any knowledge.

This attitude is harmful. Our scholars in the past disagreed with each other, but they did so with respect and wisdom. Today, we have replaced discussion with accusations. When respect disappears, healthy conversation also disappears.

Forming Opinions Without Checking the Facts

Saying something without verifying it has become normal.
We see a short video on social media and immediately judge the person in it.
We hear one sentence from someone and form a complete opinion about their life.
Sometimes we share fake news without even reading it fully.

This behavior destroys trust. One false statement can damage someone’s reputation forever.
Our religion and basic ethics both teach us to check the truth before speaking. But we often ignore this teaching and react quickly without thinking.

Assuming the Worst Instead of Thinking Positively

Another moral weakness is that we assume the worst about people.
We think someone did something with a bad intention.
We believe rumors easily.
We do not give others the benefit of doubt.

Positive thinking creates peace. Negative thinking creates distance and conflict.
If we start giving each other a chance, many misunderstandings will disappear.

What Can We Do?

Fixing this crisis does not need big speeches or big reforms.
It starts with small changes in our daily behavior:

• Think before you speak

. Words can heal or hurt. Use them carefully.

• Avoid judging by appearance.

Character is deeper than clothes or style.

• Check facts before forming an opinion.

Truth protects people. Rumors destroy.

• Respect differences.

No two people think the same. That is normal.

A label can hurt someone more than a physical wound.

• Practice kindness and patience.

These are the foundations of a healthy society.

Our world today has more information but less understanding.
More communication but less compassion.
More opinions but less wisdom.

If we want to fix our society, we must start with ourselves.
Speak softly.
Think carefully.
Judge fairly.
And treat others the way we want to be treated.

This is the path that can take us out of our moral crisis and help us build a better community for our future generations.

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